The Post-adoption Process with Adoption Choices of Texas
If you are an expectant/birth mother considering adoption, you likely have many questions regarding the post-adoption process. You are likely working through a wide variety of emotions, making the uncertainty of the adoption process even more intimidating. Adoption is not an easy decision, and right now, you deserve all of the answers you can get.
At Adoption Choices of Texas, we believe an informed decision is the best decision. That is why we are here to provide you with the information you need to make a choice for your baby; not just about the adoption process, but also what happens after the fact. What happens after you place a baby for adoption? Is post-adoption support available to you?
Post-adoption Counseling Provided by Adoption Choices of Texas
Birth mothers making an adoption plan deserve a whole lot of love and support, even after the adoption takes place. When you work with a caring adoption agency, they will recognize this. At Adoption Choices of Texas, you will be entitled to ongoing care and free counseling after your baby’s adoption. We are always here for you and encourage you to take advantage of this unending support.
After an adoption takes place, you can expect to experience a range of complicated emotions: love, grief, wonder, regret, hope, relief. After pregnancy and delivery, the body needs time to recover and heal. So does the heart. Talking through any difficult feelings with your adoption counselor can help ease your transition back into your ordinary life. Additionally, it will help your heart cope even years after the adoption takes place.
“We are not here to make your choices for you or to tell you that adoption will always be an easy solution. Adoption, even with ongoing contact after the adoption, can still be challenging and it can be natural to experience grief after the adoption. Your counselor will be there for you to help you process and deal with your emotions in a healthy way.”
Having a Relationship with Your Baby After Adoption
In addition to the free counseling services offered, Adoption Choices of Texas also maintains a letter and picture program between birth parents and adoptive families. This way, the birth mother can receive updates on her child over the years, after the adoption takes place. This is a nice way to stay in touch and up-to-date on what is happening in each family’s lives.
Depending on the type of your adoption plan, you may have a more involved relationship with your child’s family post-adoption. Many of our families opt for open adoption arrangements that involve direct contact between both families. Open adoption can take on many different forms. It may include emails, phone calls, or even in-person visits. The open adoption plan is one that is determined by the birth mother and agreed upon with the adoptive family. The birth mother may determine how much or how little communication she wants, and the plan may evolve over the years. Open adoption has been proven to be very positive for both children and birth mothers.
Adoption Choices of Texas can also act as a liaison and help coordinate ongoing contact between birth and adoptive families, if needed. We are also here if you just want to say hi! Our staff loves to hear from both birth and adoptive families over the years. We like to develop a relationship with each birth mother and adoptive family we help. You can think of us as a part of your forever family.
No matter your circumstance, Adoption Choices of Texas will always be here to help. We can guide you throughout your journey, from pregnancy to the adoption placement, and beyond. To learn more about our ongoing adoption services, or to talk to a professional about what to expect after your child’s adoption, please do not hesitate to reach out. Call our Expectant Parent Hotline (24/7): 855-304-4673 (HOPE) or email us!